"Vows That Wow”
Finding your voice - creating meaningful and memorable wedding vows for your big day.
Your wedding vows are more than just words; they're a declaration of your love, commitment, and promises for the future. Crafting your own personalised vows adds a special touch to your ceremony, allowing you to express your unique bond in words that are meaningful to you and your partner. In this blog, we'll explore the art of writing your own vows, offer tips, inspiration, and practical advice to help you create heartfelt and memorable promises. Whether you're a wordsmith or feel overwhelmed by the task, I'll walk you through the process of turning your love story into beautifully crafted vows."
Here is your “ six-step guide” of what to include in personal vows:
Start with a greeting: Starting your vows with a greeting is like opening a love letter - it sets the tone for the intimate exchange to come.
Express Your Love and Admiration: Begin by expressing your love and admiration for your partner. Reflect on what makes them special to you and why you're grateful to have them in your life.
Share Personal Memories or Experiences: Include personal anecdotes, memories, or experiences that highlight the uniqueness of your relationship. These can be touching moments, challenges you've overcome together, or anything significant that has strengthened your bond.
Make Promises for the Future: Make heartfelt promises for the future, outlining how you'll support, cherish, and stand by your partner through thick and thin. These promises should reflect your commitment to building a life together.
Highlight Your Partner's Qualities: Take a moment to highlight some of your partner's qualities or traits that you admire the most. This could include their kindness, resilience, sense of humour, or any other characteristic that you deeply appreciate.
Declare Your Everlasting Love: End your vows with a declaration of your everlasting love and commitment. Express your excitement for the journey ahead and reaffirm your dedication to loving and supporting your partner for the rest of your life.
Sample Vows using the “ six-step guide”:
Start with a greeting: My love, Partner's Name,
Express Your Love and Admiration: From the moment I first saw you, I knew my life had changed forever. Your love has brought light to my darkest days and joy to every moment we share. I am endlessly grateful for your presence in my life and the love that fills my heart because of you."
Share Personal Memories or Experiences: I'll never forget the day we met, [Partner's Name], it was like the universe had conspired to bring us together. From our late-night conversations to our adventures around the world, every memory we've created has only strengthened my love for you.
Make Promises for the Future: As we stand here today, I promise to be your unwavering support through every triumph and challenge that life throws our way. I vow to stand by your side, to lift you up when you're down, and to celebrate every success with you, for all the days of our lives.
Highlight Your Partner's Qualities: "You, Partner's Name, are my rock, my confidant, and my greatest inspiration. Your kindness, strength, and unwavering determination never cease to amaze me. I promise to cherish and honor the incredible person that you are, now and forever."
Declare Your Everlasting Love: "With all that I am and all that I have, I take you as my partner, my love, and my best friend. I promise to love you fiercely, to respect you deeply, and to cherish every moment we share together. I love you more than words can express, and I can't wait to spend the rest of my life making memories with you."
Download your “Vows that Wow” template
May your personalised vows be a testament to the love you share, guiding you through every joyous moment and supporting you through every challenge life may bring.
Here’s to love, laughter, and your happily ever after!